GHOSTED AND ALONE
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DATING
6/13/20251 min read


💌 Dear Dating Blueprint #1: "He Ghosted Me But Keeps Watching My Stories"
Dear Dating Blueprint,
I went on two amazing dates with this guy. Sparks were flying, he said he had a great time, and then… radio silence. Total ghost.
But now? He’s watching every one of my Instagram stories within 30 seconds. Does he miss me? Should I reach out?
– 🥴 Ghosted and Confused
Dear Ghosted and Confused,
Ah, the classic case of Ghost & Scroll™. Here's the truth: watching your stories is the emotional breadcrumb of the modern age. It means nothing more than, "I want to see what you’re up to, but not enough to engage like a decent human."
He’s not reaching out because he doesn’t want more. He's just enjoying front-row seats to your life. Don’t chase the shadow of someone who ghosted you — block, archive, or simply stop caring.
Let your next date actually show up — not just watch you show up on their screen.
🖤 – Dating Blueprint